We are so sad to learn that Doug died.
Since the days when he and I worked together, we had only a few opportunities to catch-up. One was January 31, when Doug told me all about the family, trips to Italy, and his plans. I felt in his voice and face how very proud he was.
I have grand memories. At this time my thoughts are of Doug's family and I hope your memories are a source of comfort.
~ Steve Giles and Liz Brasure,
Waukesha, WI
Dr Bower was more than just MY doctor. He was my parent's doctor and became my husband's, when we got married. He delivered two of our three kids, sadly because he had just "retired" from the OB part of the practice before our third pregnancy. But that didn't stop him from visiting me at the hospital when I was in labor with our third. He didn't have to stop by, but that was just how he was. My husband, kids and I were lucky to have him (And Ann Scott) for as long as we did! Not an appointment ended without him asking about how someone in the family was. He treated us as a whole ~ not just what was ailing us. Many would agree... he didn't necessarily run on time ~ but that was because he was giving you the time he felt you needed to treat you. He is the only doctor we would wait occasionally close to a hour (past appointment time) for. Because HE WAS WORTH THE WAIT! His warm heart and kindness more than made up for the cold hands he always apologized for! While I didn't necessarily look forward to having a "student" in the appointment as well, I did many times ~ because I believed there was not a better doctor they could be learning from! I too was saddened by his retirement, but knew he deserved it, so was happy for him and his family. I have so much more to day, but I have rambled on for long enough. Rest in Peace Doctor Bower, you made the world a better place!
~ The Graf Family,
WI
Dear Josie, Gina, Lisa, Family, & Friends,
I'm sure that we all share in our admiration for & appreciation of Doug as a physician, teacher, Family man, "gentile soul" & all-around "good man". In this age of "image & brand", Doug was always to be himself, & fortunately for we who had the privilege of knowing him, that was a extraordinarily good self.
Doug was a big reason why I choose to work for FHP when I moved to Mil. in the mid- '80's. I'll never forget Doug's kindness in giving my family of 6 at the time, my 1st of many Zoo passes when we arrived. What a considerate welcome gift.
I enjoyed working with Doug for several years b/4 he
went to the MCW in '92, but shortly thereafter, We were able to work together on a unit teaching & researching Motivational Interviewing to the 3rd year medical students for 2 years. Doug was willing to become my personal physician until his recent retirement. Doug helped me stay healthy for a couple of decades, & caringly coordinated the 3 major surgeries that I've had these past few years. I loved Doug's caring optimism & that he always worked with medical students. I always had the feeling that Doug would "be there" for me, doing what was best for me, & he was. I'm so glad that shortly before Doug retired I set up a clinic visit just to thank him for the great care & to say a "proper good-bye" to him. Little did we know then!
Like everyone else I was shocked & devastated by the news of his death. I hope that it helps his family to hear so many people praise his life, & share in you loss. We all have lost a great physician & person.
He was cheated out of the best years of his life, but like to beautiful obituary said, his "Doug Years" were full, and you doubtless have many fond "Doug memories" to carry with you.
Thank you for writing that inspiring obituary, & reminding us of the importance of his two great traits: being present, & being kind.
In death as in his life, Doug remains forever a great teacher & inspiration.
~ Bill Gaertner, MD,
Waukesha, WI
Dear Josie, Marilyn and family,
I was out of town last week, so was shocked and saddened by the news of Doug's passing.
I would like to extend my deepest respects for your loss. May it help you to know that others thoughts are with you.
May you find peace,
Joan Milott
~ Joan Milott,
Wauwatosa, WI
I am sorry very sorry to hear this new. I can honestly say I loved Dr Bower. He was my primary physician for 30+ years and delivered my children. He was kind, compassionate and a very caring individual. I was selfishly sad to hear of his retirement as he was going to be missed terribly. It breaks my heart that he didn’t get to enjoy his retirement as it was well deserved . Ann Scott and Dr Bower were an amazing team. Prayers to everyone who knew and loved him. He will truly be missed. May his family find comfort in the happy memories. Rest In Peace DJB. :(
~ Gladys Schwartz,
Wales , WI
Words cannot express my deepest sympathies to his family! Dr. Bower was one of a kind. His kindness, gentleness and the way he cared for his patients was so valuable. He had a calming and reassuring voice. When I learned he was retiring, I was sad for us as we were losing a great doctor, but so happy that he would now have time with his family. He was taken too soon.
May God be with you all during this difficult time
~ Lori Bower,
Lake in the Hills, IL
All of the Bronsons were so sorry to hear of Cousin Doug's passing. He grew into a wonderful husband, father, and doctor. Sending sincere sympathy and prayers to all of you.
~ Nancy Bronson Albright,
Dallas, TX
Dr.Bower was awondrful, caring doctor who cared for my mom before & during her cancer journey. His genuine concern & knowledge made every visit to his office one of hope. God bless Dr.Bower & his family.
~ Suzanne Nelson,
Whitefish Bay, WI
I was a patient of Dr. Bower's for years and was shocked to hear of his passing after his brief retirement. He was always friendly, smiling and caring when I would see him and I was surprised to hear that he also knew and worked with my prior doctor at another clinic which made me feel at home. My sympathy goes out to the entire Bower family and I pray that the lord gives you the strength to make it through these difficult days. He will always be around with every memory and story that you tell to his grandchildren. His memory will survive within you. You have my deepest sympathy.
Madonna Ravet
~ Madonna Ravet,
Wauwatosa, WI
We are so sorry to hear of Doug’s passing. Our sincerest sympathies to you and your family, Josie.
~ Jeanne Herzog and Dan Benavides,
Waukesha, WI
