We are so sad to learn that Doug died.
Since the days when he and I worked together, we had only a few opportunities to catch-up. One was January 31, when Doug told me all about the family, trips to Italy, and his plans. I felt in his voice and face how very proud he was.
I have grand memories. At this time my thoughts are of Doug's family and I hope your memories are a source of comfort.
Steve Giles and Liz Brasure
Waukesha, WI
Posted: 3/2/2020
Dr Bower was more than just MY doctor. He was my parent's doctor and became my husband's, when we got married. He delivered two of our three kids, sadly because he had just "retired" from the OB part of the practice before our third pregnancy. But that didn't stop him from visiting me at the hospital when I was in labor with our third. He didn't have to stop by, but that was just how he was. My husband, kids and I were lucky to have him (And Ann Scott) for as long as we did! Not an appointment ended without him asking about how someone in the family was. He treated us as a whole ~ not just what was ailing us. Many would agree... he didn't necessarily run on time ~ but that was because he was giving you the time he felt you needed to treat you. He is the only doctor we would wait occasionally close to a hour (past appointment time) for. Because HE WAS WORTH THE WAIT! His warm heart and kindness more than made up for the cold hands he always apologized for! While I didn't necessarily look forward to having a "student" in the appointment as well, I did many times ~ because I believed there was not a better doctor they could be learning from! I too was saddened by his retirement, but knew he deserved it, so was happy for him and his family. I have so much more to day, but I have rambled on for long enough. Rest in Peace Doctor Bower, you made the world a better place!
The Graf Family
WI
Posted: 2/27/2020
Dear Josie, Gina, Lisa, Family, & Friends,
I'm sure that we all share in our admiration for & appreciation of Doug as a physician, teacher, Family man, "gentile soul" & all-around "good man". In this age of "image & brand", Doug was always to be himself, & fortunately for we who had the privilege of knowing him, that was a extraordinarily good self.
Doug was a big reason why I choose to work for FHP when I moved to Mil. in the mid- '80's. I'll never forget Doug's kindness in giving my family of 6 at the time, my 1st of many Zoo passes when we arrived. What a considerate welcome gift.
I enjoyed working with Doug for several years b/4 he
went to the MCW in '92, but shortly thereafter, We were able to work together on a unit teaching & researching Motivational Interviewing to the 3rd year medical students for 2 years. Doug was willing to become my personal physician until his recent retirement. Doug helped me stay healthy for a couple of decades, & caringly coordinated the 3 major surgeries that I've had these past few years. I loved Doug's caring optimism & that he always worked with medical students. I always had the feeling that Doug would "be there" for me, doing what was best for me, & he was. I'm so glad that shortly before Doug retired I set up a clinic visit just to thank him for the great care & to say a "proper good-bye" to him. Little did we know then!
Like everyone else I was shocked & devastated by the news of his death. I hope that it helps his family to hear so many people praise his life, & share in you loss. We all have lost a great physician & person.
He was cheated out of the best years of his life, but like to beautiful obituary said, his "Doug Years" were full, and you doubtless have many fond "Doug memories" to carry with you.
Thank you for writing that inspiring obituary, & reminding us of the importance of his two great traits: being present, & being kind.
In death as in his life, Doug remains forever a great teacher & inspiration.
Bill Gaertner, MD
Waukesha, WI
Posted: 2/26/2020
Dear Josie, Marilyn and family,
I was out of town last week, so was shocked and saddened by the news of Doug's passing.
I would like to extend my deepest respects for your loss. May it help you to know that others thoughts are with you.
May you find peace,
Joan Milott
Joan Milott
Wauwatosa, WI
Posted: 2/24/2020
I am sorry very sorry to hear this new. I can honestly say I loved Dr Bower. He was my primary physician for 30+ years and delivered my children. He was kind, compassionate and a very caring individual. I was selfishly sad to hear of his retirement as he was going to be missed terribly. It breaks my heart that he didn’t get to enjoy his retirement as it was well deserved . Ann Scott and Dr Bower were an amazing team. Prayers to everyone who knew and loved him. He will truly be missed. May his family find comfort in the happy memories. Rest In Peace DJB. :(
Gladys Schwartz
Wales , WI
Posted: 2/24/2020
Words cannot express my deepest sympathies to his family! Dr. Bower was one of a kind. His kindness, gentleness and the way he cared for his patients was so valuable. He had a calming and reassuring voice. When I learned he was retiring, I was sad for us as we were losing a great doctor, but so happy that he would now have time with his family. He was taken too soon.
May God be with you all during this difficult time
Lori Bower
Lake in the Hills, IL
Posted: 2/24/2020
All of the Bronsons were so sorry to hear of Cousin Doug's passing. He grew into a wonderful husband, father, and doctor. Sending sincere sympathy and prayers to all of you.
Nancy Bronson Albright
Dallas, TX
Posted: 2/24/2020
Dr.Bower was awondrful, caring doctor who cared for my mom before & during her cancer journey. His genuine concern & knowledge made every visit to his office one of hope. God bless Dr.Bower & his family.
Suzanne Nelson
Whitefish Bay, WI
Posted: 2/24/2020
I was a patient of Dr. Bower's for years and was shocked to hear of his passing after his brief retirement. He was always friendly, smiling and caring when I would see him and I was surprised to hear that he also knew and worked with my prior doctor at another clinic which made me feel at home. My sympathy goes out to the entire Bower family and I pray that the lord gives you the strength to make it through these difficult days. He will always be around with every memory and story that you tell to his grandchildren. His memory will survive within you. You have my deepest sympathy.
Madonna Ravet
Madonna Ravet
Wauwatosa, WI
Posted: 2/23/2020
We are so sorry to hear of Doug’s passing. Our sincerest sympathies to you and your family, Josie.
Jeanne Herzog and Dan Benavides
Waukesha, WI
Posted: 2/23/2020
The world has lost a wonderful MD and person. So kind hearted. My prayers to his family.
Stacey Van Rens
Milwaukee , WI
Posted: 2/23/2020
Josie, Gina, Lisa and family,
I am so so sorry for your tremendous loss and am grieving with you. Doug touched my heart, just as he did to so many. I can feel now he will live through me, just as he will live through so many of us. I am so lucky to have gotten to spend some precious time with him.
Colleen Condon
Blue Mounds, WI
Posted: 2/23/2020
He took wonderful care of my mother and sister. Always so positive and loving.
Judy Schendlinger
Middleton, WI
Posted: 2/23/2020
Sorry about Dougs passing enjoyed having him as our doctor very patient and funny
Ron and Barb Hayes
milwaukee, WI
Posted: 2/21/2020
Josie and family—
We were devastated to hear of your loss, but the memories we all have of good times with Doug and of his uncommon decency remind us of what a great life Doug led together with you.
Joe and Barbara Layde
Joe and Barbara Layde
Victoria, BC
Posted: 2/20/2020
We are so saddened to hear of Doug's unexpected passing. His contribution to family medicine--to his patients, MCW, and nationally within STFM--will live on in the memories of all who knew him and of his efforts! Our thoughts and prayers are with Jose and his family. May your memories, family, friends and faith support you in this difficult time! Marge and Jeff
Jeff and Marge Stearns
Mequon, WI
Posted: 2/20/2020
I was so sorry to hear about Doug's passing...I've know him for 25 years and had called on him for that length of time, we shared an interest in vaccines and had seen him out at concerts etc. I had just retired and planned to reach out to him shortly so this comes as a sad reminder of our shared mortality. He will be missed.
Daniel Geshrick
Milwaukee , WI
Posted: 2/19/2020
So sorry to hear about Doug's death. Joesy and family you have my sympathy. I use to share a office with Doug at Family Health plan. Doug was so dedicated to his patients. After Doug went to the Medical college we still kept in communication on teaching medical students and working with individual patients. I will miss Doug as will many other physicians in SE Wisconsin.
Dave Olson
Muskego, WI
Posted: 2/19/2020